Sunday, April 12, 2009

Party Time!!!!!!

Where has the time gone? Is it really that time of year when women can wear white shoes and it not be a " No-no"?( Ok.. That's a really old fashion statement, but still very relevant!)

"I'm sorry I'm late. I don't know where time went but I'm ready to PARTY!!)

It seems as if time is passing by so quickly, at least for me. I remember as a child, time seemed to go by so slowly. I would hate having to wait( I.E. " She's as slow as Christmas!). Things seemed to take a lifetime! That has all changed now. Do you ever look up and its days, weeks, months or ::Gasp:: years later?



In March, I turned another year older. Was it my birthday already? Had another year passed by that quickly? Birthdays, Anniversaries, etc. are a big reminder of time. Sometimes you just don't want to think about time and where it has gone. It would be much easier if you didn't have to follow a calendar or clock. It would be so much easier if you could just go through a daily routine and not think about being late for something(If you know me, I am late for most things-CPT!!).

Sometimes, I feel as if I was born to late or I got to the party after most of the guest have left and the festivities have ended. Most people are gone. You walk in thinking that you're gonna make an entrance but really you're just looking like the desperate one still at the party.

Doesn't that hurt? You want people to know you just got here late and am not so needy for companionship that you would stay until the "Fat lady sings". (I am one of those people who hates staying until the end of a party or anything for that matter). I think that staying until you're kicked out is not a good thing.

Here's something that is very true: "Time and Tide wait for no man". Mother use to utter these words over and over again. I use to think she was just talking and trying to make me get things done faster but then I realized time wasn't waiting on me and didn't really care when I arrived because, no matter what, it was not going to stop.

I guess everyday I'm learning the real secret: The Time-keeper really doesn't care about when we arrive to the party. He only cares that we get to the right party. He only cares that we get where we're suppose to be.

(So, Antony, you need to realize that you aren't in control of time. Worry is a human instinct but doesn't help us or the situation at all. When we get to where we're suppose to be, we will get there. The time in between is just preparing you for when you do arrive at the party.)

Enjoy this party. We may think that we've gotten to the party late but really we are just in time!

Better Late than never( or Pregnant! he he),

Antony

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